Newest Member: oakleaf

BoiledEggs

External Validation and Coming on forums

We understandably hear a lot about our addiction to External Validation

It struck me this morning that coming on here to post as a Wayward is maybe feeding the Beast?

Instead of feeding the Attention Beast we could be helping clean up our elderly neighbour's front garden for them.

At the same time self judgment on how we choose to spend our time seems to keep us trapped as well.

What are your thoughts on this?

7 comments posted: Saturday, June 27th, 2026

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